I’m told I was conceived in western. Western province. But until I started being conscious of who I was, I never knew weatern. I was born in Rift Valley, grew up there until I was done my primary school. My mother says she ran away after she discovered she was expectant. It was normal then for young girls to run away from home especially after getting in to such a mess and nobody bothered to look for them. They would try but not hard enough. Whether its true or not I may never know. Did I tell you I fixed my life with imaginary birthdates and people’s to go on with school?

Kakamega is a Luhya backyard. Rift Valley is believed to be Kalenjin stronghold but where I grew up, was Luhya infested Kalenjin backyard, a county whose name cannot be associated with any Kenyan tribe because every one is there. There was considerable peace and harmony among neighbors except for occasional pokot cattle rastlers who scared the hell out of us with their extra loud AK’s. This part of rift valley was/is usually called scheme. For example where I lived, across the was an old woman called Magdalena. She was a Kalenjin staunch Christian with a rather funny life style. She never entertained neighbors except when she was gaining from it. She stayed with her son John and some of her grand children. Her house was a unique one in the whole village. Many think that the house was abandoned when colonialists went back.

Where her farm ended to the east was a Kisii fellow. We didn’t see much of him then but the farm was useful and would provide an income for many villagers during planting and harvesting seasons. On the north end of where we lived was a Teso old man. We knew him by one name:Dickson. We heard that he migrated in from Busia or Teso which is further west of weatern. Interesting thing about his family is that his children spoke both Teso and the popular luhya dialect Bukusu. And Swahili.

If you crossed river Nzoia further east was munyaka scheme. Now this was where most Kikuyu’s were found. They occupy the entire stretch of the slopes cheranganyi hills towards Marakwet. It is said president Kenyatta, the father not the son, brought them in from central Kenya which was becoming smaller. They are just like the ones you find in Mpeketoni Lamu. They are enterprising,hard working, and usually very efficient with their farms. They planted every type of crop that you could think of. They never lacked. Their only problem was the cattle rastlers of the pokot community coming from the other side of the hill. They were generous and loving. I think they still are since its been 15 years since I left the village.

I knew a Luo from my childhood. One of my uncles had married a kamba from Mombasa. I am/was a luhya. Our immediate neighbour was a Kalenjin and on the other side was a Teso. Kisii’s were all over: three of my primary school teachers were Kisii’s. Mrs Motanya, Mr. Omonso and Ms Kwamboka.The headteacher was a Kikuyu and his deputy was a Luhya. Life was fun. Things looked ancient but enjoyable. That’s where I learnt Swahili. Noboby would victmise anyone for getting a girlfriend from a neighbor who wasn’t speaking your language. What worries me is I don’t remember weddings where partners were from two different tribes!

I saw my uncles go back to western to get wives. I would see young girls leave the village and get married to young men from their tribe. It was never a big problem for any one then. It was acceptable by everyone. We went to school together played together learned together but in the end no one gets married to different tribe. It was deeply entrenched in to the culture, highly valued and celebrated across all communities. But it just now that I realize it was a recipe for disaster in this country.

Tumaini primary school did well from the classrooms to the field. We had Kalenjini’s who represented us in long races, we had Kisii’s as well and Kikuyu’s. Ruth Siangu was the fastest in the district in the short races. She was a luhya. There were bunch of Kisii’s, luhyas and Kikuyu’s who played football. They never needed a coach. But they always made us proud. I tried football but was not good enough. But I really tried in class. Kenna Wasike can attest. He is an educator and a Swahili novelist now. But the good thing, I saw raw talent from pupils who really never cared about their dialects and represented us with pride. I am honoured to have known them and I am previlleged to have lived among them. The village was sinyerere the location was sinyerere and the division was Kaplamai. Kenya can be better than this small model village back in the 90’s.